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never made space for your sensitivity.
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never made space for your sensitivity.

We support diagnosed, self-identifying and questioning neurodivergent adults through compassionate, somatic and trauma-informed support.

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You’ve spent your whole life trying to hold it all together.

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Maybe they called you sensitive, disorganised or dramatic.
Maybe you learned to call yourself broken.

But something in you is beginning to stir.
A quiet knowing that perhaps the problem was never you, but the constant pressure to hide, mask and keep going within systems that were never built with you in mind.

Here at All That We Are, you are met exactly where you are, gently, slowly and with care.

Because healing is not about fixing.
It is about reconnecting with who you have always been beneath the layers of survival.

Who this is for

This space is for the ones who are tired of explaining themselves, trying to fit in, of feeling out of place or of not quite knowing who they are beneath everything they have had to be.

We specialise in working with neurodivergent adults, whether you are late identified, self identifying, questioning or just beginning to explore what this might mean for you.

Many of the people we support are navigating ADHD, Autism, AuDHD, trauma or the deep exhaustion that comes from years of masking and holding it all together.

You’re welcome here if:

  • You’ve masked for years and now your body’s asking for rest
  • You’re chronically exhausted & burnt-out
  • You want support that feels relational, not clinical
  • You’re seeking softness, safety, and a new way of being with yourself
  • You’ve tried therapy, but still feel stuck
  • You shut down, overthink, fawn, or freeze
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Our approach

Support that honours your sensitivity - not pathologises it.

We combine somatic coaching, Brainspotting and Parts Work (IFS informed) in a way that is neurodivergent affirming, gentle and led by your nervous system.

We welcome the overwhelmed parts, the shutdown parts, the parts you thought you had to hide away. This is a space for real nervous system support, trauma aware and built with neurodivergent needs in mind.

Our approach is neurodivergent affirming and designed for real life regulation, connection and relief.

Our services

1:1 Coaching and Brainspotting

Support that honours your neurodivergent mind; combining coaching and Brainspotting to guide both your insights and your body’s deeper stories.

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Trauma and Neurodiversity Training

Creating safer, more supportive spaces, one conversation at a time. For organisations, carers, teams and leaders who want to offer better support

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Access to Work Coaching

If you’re in employment or self-employment, you may be eligible for government funding through Access to Work to cover the cost of our coaching or support. 

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Our services

1:1 Coaching and Brainspotting

Support that honours your neurodivergent mind; combining coaching and Brainspotting to guide both your insights and your body’s deeper stories.

Find out More

Trauma and Neurodiversity Training

Creating safer, more supportive spaces, one conversation at a time. For organisations, carers, teams and leaders who want to offer better support

Find out More

Access to Work Coaching

If you’re in employment or self-employment, you may be eligible for government funding through Access to Work to cover the cost of our coaching or support. 

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Meet the team

We’re not here to fix you. We’re here to walk with you.

Our team is made up of coaches who are not only trauma-informed, we’ve also walked our own paths through neurodivergence, trauma, overwhelm, masking and sensitivity.

We hold space with care, clarity and compassion – so you can start holding space for yourself.

Meet the team

Ready to begin

At All That We Are, we know that growth is a journey, not a destination. We are here to walk alongside you, offering tools, insights and encouragement every step of the way.

Whether you are seeking personal healing, professional development or organisational transformation, we invite you to connect with us. Together, we can build a world where compassion, curiosity and connection thrive.

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More about Sally...

I’m Sally – late-identified AuDHD, deeply sensitive and still unravelling. I’m a somatic, trauma-informed coach specialising in supporting neurodivergent adults, particularly those exhausted by masking, navigating late-diagnosis grief or trying to cope in a world that wasn’t built for their nervous systems.

My approach is gentle, body-led and deeply relational. I support people who’ve spent years holding it all together, often labelled as ‘too much’ or ‘too sensitive’, to finally feel safe enough to exhale. 

My work is rooted in a trauma-informed understanding of the nervous system, and using  Brainspotting, Parts Work, and somatic tools, I support people in recognising that what often gets labelled as anxiety, burnout or emotional dysregulation is often the body’s brilliant response to chronic stress, masking, or survival mode. Together, we explore the impact of past experiences on the present, to gently unhook from old patterns and reconnect with the parts of you that were never broken, only protecting you.

Outside of this work, I ground myself in nature  – walking in the woods or dipping into cold water to reset. These moments of stillness shape how I hold space for others: slow, attuned, and always with care.

If you’re craving a space where your nervous system doesn’t have to perform – just be felt, honoured, and understood – I’d love to walk alongside you.

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Neurodiversity-Affirming, Trauma-Aware Coach

I’m Dan, a somatic, trauma-aware coach. Most of the people I work with are trying to figure out why life feels so bloody hard sometimes, even when they’re doing all the right things.  

I support adults who feel burnt out from masking, overwhelmed by the day to day, or worn down by the effort of fitting into everyone else’s version of normal. Many of the people I work with are Autistic or ADHD, but not everyone is, what matters is how you experience and make sense of things.  

Like most of my clients, I’ve been there too, years of keeping up the act, overthinking everything, and pretending I was fine when I wasn’t. I do this work because I know how much difference it makes when someone finally meets you where you are, no masks and no judgement, just understanding.  

My approach is practical and collaborative to help you make sense of what’s really going on underneath and work with your nervous system, not against it. Some sessions are practical and some are slower. You can show up exactly as you are and we’ll follow what’s useful, not a plan someone else wrote.  

When I’m not coaching, you’ll probably find me out walking, cooking a roast big enough for leftovers, or reading crime fiction on my Kindle.  

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More about Suzanne...

My mission is to help as many people as possible find happiness and live their lives to the fullest. I provide a safe and nurturing environment where clients can get curious about their past trauma, understand the connection between mind and body, and reclaim their power in the present.

I believe that everyone deserves to be seen and heard, without judgment or repercussions. In our 1-on-1 sessions, you have the freedom to express yourself authentically, to delve into your emotions, thoughts, and experiences. Together, we’ll create a safe space where you can get curious and start to grow at your own pace. By working somatically with the body, we tap into the power of sensations and help you develop a deeper understanding of how past trauma manifests in the body and shows up in the present.

Through guided exploration, we’ll identify the parts of you that have been shaped by feelings and core wounds of unworthiness, not being good enough, not important enough and unlovable. With compassion and curiosity, we’ll nurture your inner child, offering the love and support they’ve always needed. Together, we’ll navigate through the challenges of overwhelm, stress, anxiety, and more. We’ll discover the power of selflove, self-care, and self-acceptance. You’ll embark on a journey of growth, where you’ll find your voice, rebuild confidence, and live a life aligned with your true essence. 

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More about Michelle...

A few years ago, I began my own healing journey. Like many people, I didn’t think of myself as someone who had experienced trauma. But through working with a trauma-informed coach, I started to see how past experiences had shaped my emotions and behaviors. That journey changed everything for me.

I became certified in somatic trauma-informed coaching and trained as a Brainspotting practitioner, learning how to connect with emotions stored in the body and approach healing with curiosity and compassion. Now, I’m on a mission to share these transformative tools with others.

All That We Are was born from this passion. It’s about raising awareness of trauma, helping people connect with their emotions, and offering practical, compassionate support. We want to normalize the conversation around trauma because, we’ve all experienced it in some way.

Outside of work, my life is all about connection and growth. My husband and I homeschool our son, which has been an incredible adventure and a constant reminder of the joy in learning together. I’m also a huge fan of ice baths—I love the challenge, the clarity, and the sense of calm they bring (yes, really!).

I believe everyone deserves to feel seen, heard, and valued—and I’m here to help people realize they are enough, just as they are.

Through workshops, 1-2-1 coaching, and education across schools, workplaces, and beyond, my amazing team and I are here to support you on your journey to becoming whole, happy, and fulfilled.

Let’s take the first step together. You’re not alone. 

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