Brainspotting

Unlock the body’s ability to heal itself through Brainspotting. A body focused, nervous system led approach that supports trauma, overwhelm and emotional experiences that can feel hard to shift through talking alone. Rather than relying on insight or analysis, Brainspotting works with the natural connection between the brain and body, allowing your system to process what’s been held beneath the surface, gently, and at its own pace. 

How Brainspotting works

Brainspotting works with how the brain and nervous system naturally process experience. 

When something overwhelming happens, the brain’s survival systems can stay activated. These responses are held largely in the mid-brain and nervous system, areas responsible for threat detection, emotional processing and body responses rather than the parts of the brain involved in language and reasoning. This is why talking alone doesn’t always reach what’s going on. 

Brainspotting uses the connection between eye position, the brain and the nervous system. Certain points in your visual field link with how experiences are stored and activated in the brain. By gently locating and holding attention on one of these points, a brainspot, the nervous system is given the conditions it needs to process and reorganise what’s been held. 

During this process, the brain can begin to integrate experiences more fully, allowing patterns of tension, overwhelm or shutdown to soften over time. This happens without needing to analyse, retell or consciously direct the process. 

You might notice sensations, emotions, memories, images or subtle shifts and all responses are valid. 

The focus is on creating enough safety and support for your brain and body to process and settle in their own way. The work unfolds gradually, guided by what your nervous system can tolerate in the moment. 

 

 

What Brainspotting can help with

Because Brainspotting works directly with the parts of the brain and nervous system involved in stress, threat and emotional processing, it can support a wide range of experiences, especially those that don’t shift easily through talking alone. 

People often use Brainspotting to work with: 

Rather than trying to change these patterns through willpower or insight, Brainspotting supports the nervous system to process and reorganise what’s been held underneath them. 

Because this approach works directly with the mid-brain and body, it can be particularly supportive for neurodivergent adults including ADHD, Autistic and AuDHD people who often find traditional talking approaches exhausting, overwhelming or hard to access. 

What to expect in a Brainspotting session

Brainspotting sessions are paced with care and shaped around your nervous system. 

We begin by checking in and making sure you feel supported and grounded. From there, we gently identify a brainspot and allow your system space to process in its own way. There’s no pressure to explain, analyse or know exactly what you’re working on. 

This approach may be a good fit if you: 

Brainspotting works directly with the brain and nervous system’s capacity to process experience. By working beneath words and analysis, it can reach areas of trauma and overwhelm that feel stuck, fragmented or hard to explain. 

Next steps

If you’re curious, the next step is a free welcome call. 

This is a chance to ask questions, understand how Brainspotting works in practice, and see whether it feels like a good fit, with no pressure to commit. 

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More about Sally...

I’m Sally – late-identified AuDHD, deeply sensitive and still unravelling. I’m a somatic, trauma-informed coach specialising in supporting neurodivergent adults, particularly those exhausted by masking, navigating late-diagnosis grief or trying to cope in a world that wasn’t built for their nervous systems.

My approach is gentle, body-led and deeply relational. I support people who’ve spent years holding it all together, often labelled as ‘too much’ or ‘too sensitive’, to finally feel safe enough to exhale. 

My work is rooted in a trauma-informed understanding of the nervous system, and using  Brainspotting, Parts Work, and somatic tools, I support people in recognising that what often gets labelled as anxiety, burnout or emotional dysregulation is often the body’s brilliant response to chronic stress, masking, or survival mode. Together, we explore the impact of past experiences on the present, to gently unhook from old patterns and reconnect with the parts of you that were never broken, only protecting you.

Outside of this work, I ground myself in nature  – walking in the woods or dipping into cold water to reset. These moments of stillness shape how I hold space for others: slow, attuned, and always with care.

If you’re craving a space where your nervous system doesn’t have to perform – just be felt, honoured, and understood – I’d love to walk alongside you.

More about Dan...

Neurodiversity-Affirming, Trauma-Aware Coach

I’mDan, a somatic, trauma-aware coach. Most of the people I work with are trying to figure out why life feels sobloody hardsometimes, even whenthey’redoing all the right things. 

I support adults who feel burnt out from masking, overwhelmed by the daytoday, or worn down by the effort of fitting into everyone else’s version of normal. Many of the people I work with areAutistic or ADHD, but not everyone is, what matters is how you experience and make sense of things. 

Like most of my clients,I’vebeen there too, years of keeping up the act, overthinking everything, and pretending I was fine when Iwasn’t. I do this work because I know how much difference it makes when someone finally meets you where you are, no masks and no judgement, just understanding. 

My approach is practical and collaborativeto help you make sense ofwhat’sreally going on underneath and work with your nervous system, not against it. Some sessions arepracticaland some are slower. You can show up exactly as you are andwe’llfollowwhat’suseful, not a plan someone else wrote. 

WhenI’mnot coaching,you’llprobably findme out walking, cooking a roast big enough for leftovers, or reading crime fiction on my Kindle. 

More about Suzanne...

My mission is to help as many people as possible find happiness and live their lives to the fullest. I provide a safe and nurturing environment where clients can get curious about their past trauma, understand the connection between mind and body, and reclaim their power in the present.

I believe that everyone deserves to be seen and heard, without judgment or repercussions. In our 1-on-1 sessions, you have the freedom to express yourself authentically, to delve into your emotions, thoughts, and experiences. Together, we’ll create a safe space where you can get curious and start to grow at your own pace. By working somatically with the body, we tap into the power of sensations and help you develop a deeper understanding of how past trauma manifests in the body and shows up in the present.

Through guided exploration, we’ll identify the parts of you that have been shaped by feelings and core wounds of unworthiness, not being good enough, not important enough and unlovable. With compassion and curiosity, we’ll nurture your inner child, offering the love and support they’ve always needed. Together, we’ll navigate through the challenges of overwhelm, stress, anxiety, and more. We’ll discover the power of selflove, self-care, and self-acceptance. You’ll embark on a journey of growth, where you’ll find your voice, rebuild confidence, and live a life aligned with your true essence. 

More about Michelle...

A few years ago, I began my own healing journey. Like many people, I didn’t think of myself as someone who had experienced trauma. But through working with a trauma-informed coach, I started to see how past experiences had shaped my emotions and behaviors. That journey changed everything for me.

I became certified in somatic trauma-informed coaching and trained as a Brainspotting practitioner, learning how to connect with emotions stored in the body and approach healing with curiosity and compassion. Now, I’m on a mission to share these transformative tools with others.

All That We Are was born from this passion. It’s about raising awareness of trauma, helping people connect with their emotions, and offering practical, compassionate support. We want to normalize the conversation around trauma because, we’ve all experienced it in some way.

Outside of work, my life is all about connection and growth. My husband and I homeschool our son, which has been an incredible adventure and a constant reminder of the joy in learning together. I’m also a huge fan of ice baths—I love the challenge, the clarity, and the sense of calm they bring (yes, really!).

I believe everyone deserves to feel seen, heard, and valued—and I’m here to help people realize they are enough, just as they are.

Through workshops, 1-2-1 coaching, and education across schools, workplaces, and beyond, my amazing team and I are here to support you on your journey to becoming whole, happy, and fulfilled.

Let’s take the first step together. You’re not alone.